Words of Wisdom.
Words of Wisdom.

So often nowadays the news makes me sick. :(

I want to be as positive as possible instead of dwelling in the sadness and evil that exists all around us, so I will simply say that it is EASY to be one of the bad guys. It’s much more noteworthy and amazing to find the folks that are truly good and genuinely want to help others just because it’s the right thing to do. I am sick of giving attention to these delusional dipshits that think they wield some sort of power just because they possess the basic motor skills required to shoot a fucking firearm. Strength is being able to smile sincerely and enjoy all the wonder and beauty this highly imperfect world has to offer, instead of letting the negativity we’re so often inundated with weigh us down. To put it another way:

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There is SO MUCH to do/see/experience in this world. If we are even as much as “bored” for a second, we only have ourselves to blame for not getting off our asses and taking advantage of it all. Every single person in the world has a reason to be “depressed” and wallow in self-pity, if that’s the way they decide they want to live waste their life. Every single person also has reasons to be happy, grateful, and excited; it all truly depends on your outlook.


Remember that, and remember that we can be the hope and change we wish to see, if we’re strong enough to actually show that we give a fuck in a world that so often tells us not to.



Be nice to people



Seriously. It is. :) xoxoxo


Posted by Kasey 6 Comments
  • habs_69

    First about the last post “Drrrrrrr” are you making fun of me ;p and I learned my lessons if I see something I know you’ll like or want to know about I’m going to send it…. I don’t want any Friday the 13th tv show mistakes again. Wish IG would just do a click on the link thing already, anyways back on subject.

    Woman you have no idea how much I wish I could hug you through the internet right now, my heart and soul right now have the biggest smile and I feel all warm in side (could just be the Mexican I just had). I absolutely hate that you have to make post like this but unfortunately we have crazy, sick and demented people in this world we live in, we’ve had them from the beginning and we will always have them unfortunately. Human nature… we have to take the good with the bad but there is way more good in this world but what really sucks is that the bad gets blasted all over the news 24/7 with a sprinkle of the good, like reports like to say “if it bleeds it leads”. Don’t know if you’re a MJ fan but I am this song is one of my favorite and encapsulates what you’re saying “Man in the Mirror” http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PivWY9wn5ps

    All I’ll say is that you are just amazing and that my life has been made richer by having you in it! And even though it’s only online it doesn’t matter because your love, joy and hope for a better world and future shine bright in this post and all your other posts, even DPxxx and Kinky Horror ones because they are all filled with happiness they are a part of you. I know corny cheesy that’s my middle name but you already knew that. ;)

    Sending you a big bear hug and lots of love xoxoxo

  • Kory D. Lee

    My issue is that he’s (the dad of on of the murdered kids) blaming the wrong people. He needs to put blame on the parents of the murderer. It’s because this degenerate lowlife had access to weapons, and planned his rampage despite being SPOILED ROTTEN and not really having to work for anything in his life. His father, who works in a good job and makes a better living than most people, raised a complete elitist fuck-up that murdered and destroyed 6 families, destroyed and perverted a college campus and town, and ultimately got what his spoiled ass wanted. To be famous.

    My heart goes out to the families of the kids who died. My cousins daughter just started there and she has BLOND hair, which is what this killer was gonna aim for. She wasn’t even close to the shootings, thankfully, and is safe. But the real question is who is to blame for the moral destitute of this reject from the gene pool? I blame the father and the mother. My reasoning is actually sound. Who is ultimately responsible for the moral and ethical character of a person? Their parents. Not tossing religion into the mix, but a child (and he was a child) has no moral or ethical compass. They are taught by their parents what is right and wrong. In this idiots case, he was basically tossed things to keep him happy. Basically distractions so his parents could do what THEY wanted. No wonder he felt like a victim. He could not get what he wanted so the only way he could get gratification was to hurt. Basically throw a tantrum. Like a child who doesn’t get the toy or candy they want. Pathetic.

    We all feel like a victim at least once in out lives. I myself have been victimized in a huge number of ways over a very long period. But instead of hurting someone else who may or may not have anything to do with it, I turned it around and learn from it and grew. I would not be the person I am if it weren’t for the victimization that I’ve dealt with.

    I understand the father is grieving. He lost his child. But don’t lash out at things that really have no connection to the tragedy. Blame the real responsible party. The Killer and his family. They are the ones who failed.

  • DianaPrinceXXX

    I respect all that you’ve written here, but strongly disagree with you on many levels. Real, true change NEEDS to happen here. It is FREAKING RIDICULOUS that this has become something we are all getting so used to as part of every day life in America. I’m sick of hearing about gun owners’ rights: As Mr. Martinez so painfully stated, what about his son’s right to live? What about our citizens’ rights to the pursuit of happiness? So many of us no longer feel safe here and get super depressed when we have to hear about this bullshit OVER AND FREAKING OVER AGAIN!!!!!

    Clearly I’m anti-gun and I wish they all would just disappear from existence, but since that isn’t going to happen, we need to make sure SOMETHING is done about this. I am sick of the powers that be getting “upset” and expressing their sympathies for a day or two, then moving along with absolutely ZERO CHANGE to our nation’s gun policies. If you don’t want to restrict them (which NEEDS to happen, but I digress), at least make the penalty for using one in a violent crime extremely harsh and non-negotiable, so hopefully spineless lil dickweeds like this fucker will have to think or grow some balls before they use a gun to hurt others. It’s too fucking easy, and it’s causing too much pain. People need to TRULY care and heed Mr. Martinez’s words so we can strive to make sure we see the end of all this reprehensible violence.

    And I DON’T blame the parents. I blame any individual who makes the choice to act out in this way. As I said in this post, we all go through various degrees of shit in this lifetime, but how we handle that is ENTIRELY OUR CHOICE!!! I am sick of dumbfucks blaming everyone in the world for their woes (especially dumbfucks that seemingly have it as good as this douchebag fucktard did). Good or bad, our situation is what it is, and it is up to each one of us to make the best out of things as they are. It is NEVER an option to wallow in endless self-pity and blame everyone else for our perceived “problems” to the point where we convince ourselves that hurting other people like this is somehow justifiable. IT NEVER IS. FOR ANY REASON!!!!!!

    Sorry…End rant. ;) Peace and love, homie. xo

  • DianaPrinceXXX

    The news of yet another mass shooting, and seeing certain people’s reactions to it online. :(

    Lmk if there’s anything I can help you with whatever you’re dealing with on a more personal level. Hugs. xoxo

  • http://www.flushgorden.co.uk/ Flush Gorden

    When someone over here walked into a primary school with a bundle of guns and went on a rampage the populace petitioned the government to change the laws to make it more difficult for people to get their hands on gun while also banning the ownership of handguns. Though we never had the same sort of gun culture that the US has.

    Australia did have a very similar gun culture but after a massacre it was decided to have introduce gun control laws which didn’t go down well to begin with and I believe it cost many politicians their careers but they thought it was the right thing to do and the Australian people have come to realise that too.

  • Chris.H

    Still…no…reply (email)…from…you…(?)…